when rushing comes over u

hmmmm.....

how should i say this........ r people in luv do crazy things together and when they hate each other, they realised it is too late and regretted that they didn't do what they have done...... ok here's the story,

today i come back from work quite normal time.....which is around 745ish arriving home.......so as i turning to the junction, i saw a lady hitting or should i say punching a guy on a bike......at first it made me curious so i slowed down.........and later noticed that the guy didn't hit back or anything as the gurl keep on punching the guy with a crying face on her look......so it struck me that this two are couples that are having their hard times.........so it really kindda played in my mind y is it that when we r in the hard times with our relationship, we tend to use physical expression to show our feelings......... it really bothers me through out the nite......during my shower, my dinner and also when i was about to go to bed.........so i guess that guy could either have done one of the following:

1. Got other person in life
2. Lost the gurl's money
3. Boned the gurl
4. Broke off engagement when the wedding is just around the corner
5. Family commitment
   
6. Admitting to the gurl that he's gay
7. saying that he's not living so long

or i might just imagining it too much of it.....not being kpc or anything, just that y can't we faced the fact that maybe that the person is not suitable no more for u and that life has to go on although damage has being done.......

i guess, this is what happen when a person is rushing in doing things.........as we all know that when we do things in rush, we tend to forget something......and that if u say that rushing doesn't affect u, then gud for u......however, 95% or more has admit that they will forget to do something and wish that they had more time to prepare and also to study the material and later will accept that the fact that the material is like that.........

this is becoz, to change someone who is in their comfort zone of their behavior in a glance, it would be hard since that they have been living with this attitude for years, i guess it is hard for u to change it according to ur expectation......from my point of view, it is better if u can give and take with someone that u really admire and also who u are interested with.......

i guess, u should be proud of who u r and not being a hypocrite since being one will one day impact u in a hard way......just be who u r and also be proud of it.......i'm sure that the world is fair in terms of this and someone someday will eventually feel comfortable with ur attitude........but i must say to the all nice guys out there, most of the time, u can only get those hot chickas after they are being spoiled with those so called bad boys and in which they will come cry to u and looking for a shoulder to cry on........so now, think wisely who is the loser in this situation........

from my point of view, if u know deep in ur heart that with someone that u admire u can share ur luv and it won't fade even though that u know along the way u will face ups and downs but u will ensure that it could be solved with out much hassle, then i guess.......hold on to that person, and be with them till eternity..........but if u can't, then let them go and continue with ur life......coz rushing will bring out 2 consequences that is the beauty of it or the hell of it........as for me and my friends, we like to be single so that we can mingle with out no one to envy at us for wat we do.....

HOW CAN WE BE LOVERS ? (Michael Bolton)

CHORUS:
How can we be lovers if we can't be friends
How can we start over when the fighting never ends
Baby, how can we make love if we can't make amends
Tell me how we can be lovers if we can't be,
Can't be friends

Look at us now, look at us baby
Still tryin' to work it out
Never get it right
We must be fools, we must be crazy
Whoa, whoa, when there's no communication
Whao, Whoa, it's a no win situation

Repeat Chorus

We lie awake, this wall between us
We're just not talking, we got so much to say
Let's break these chains, our love can free us
Whoa, Whoa, ain't it time we started tryin'
Whoa, whoa, gotta stop this love from dying

Repeat Chorus

Baby, love is tough but we can take it
Baby, times are rough but we can make it
We can work it out