respecting others

it is always that in a conversation, we normally would be cut off by someone who wishes to say something.......... so, in this situation, it is rude if u wouldn't give space for the other party to say.......as the message that they wanna say could be very important.............just imagine, if both parties wanna talk........then who wants to listen........... when the other party has given their message, then it is important that you should respect their decisions as that is what they want if you think that's best for them.........


cheerioz peeps..........

Always give space for the other party to talk if u wanna make the discussion a success

a simple catchups with friends

yesterday, i woke up very early coz i need to service jazzy..........apparently, i wanted to put full synthetic lubricants instead of semi.........this means that i only need to service my car every 10k kms.......... but then it costs me bout rm 450ish..........sigh............coz i need to change this and that........then in the afternoon, sweetie fetch me and we went to klcc to run some errands, i.e. fix shoes at the cobbler, pay bills and also sweetie needs to pay her tax...........

then later we went to CPK for lunch......well, it was 3 in the evening, so i guess it is a very very very late lunch.........we had the spinach antichop dip with nachos and also ginger butter cheese bread........it was a lovely lunch........then later, we felt very very sleepy coz we were so hungry and we didn't had any meal for the day yet.........so, sweetie sent me home and i took a short nap coz i was really really sleepy.............

then bout 5ish, woke up and took shower and went to fetch sweetie...........arrived at klcc bout 8 and met michelle, irene and ash at delicious @ marc residence beside ascott/kirana.......basically we are having dinner becoz michelle is going abroad to gain some work experience in melcourne..........we greet each other and also were so delighted to meet up with them...........then later, sabrina and her bf megat arrived.............

since me and sweetie just had a heavy and also late lunch, we decided to have salad for dinner and also garlic bread........the rest was so suprised that we are only having such meal.....but after we explained to them, they understood............ we had a great time, did some catchups and also took pix.........basically a good laugh everybody had..............

then later, we were in the midst of deciding whether to go to tiffin's bay for drinks or should have desserts, but then sabrina and michelle was like, hmmmmmmmmmm.......so craving for the desserts........... so me and sweetie and also sab and her bf ordered classic chocolate cake with ice cream on top...........mich, ash and also irene shared the chocolate brownie........the funny part was the 3 of them were fighting bout the portion that each other wanted......obviously they want just a small piece.........and i had a good laugh and told them that this is so the opposite of people in africa........in a way, trying to make them feel guilty of not having a bigger piece........hahahahaha........ we finished dinner bout 10ish/11ish...................

sent sweetie home and went back home.........later went to bed bout 2ish...............and i've just go to know that the government owes me for tax refundable........hahahahaha........good good.......i like...........hehehehe.........to michelle, i wish u all the best in melbourne............cheerz peeps........

p/s: sh*t...........tmrw is a working day...........damn..........

Me and sweetie

Hang out buddies

Sweetie, Michelle and Ashvin

Me and my ex snr manager irene

Sweetie, me and michelle

Sweetie and michelle

Sabrina and Megat

Looking at the other camera while this one was taken by sweetie

I like this pix

All use to work in one department

The food that we had.......mmmmmmmmmmmmm..........nice

The place that we had the dinner

The whole lot

Candid pix

a nite of parteeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyy

last nite, went to a function with sweetie and the gang.......... i started to work at 630 in the morning and finished work at 330 in the evening........arrived home and took a nap for a while.......about 515ish went to fetch sweetie and also her colleague yin mei to go to zouk for the function.......basically the function was the final of Cleo's 50 Most Eligible Bachelor.........

perviously, went to the curve for the preview stage of the event like 2 weeks ago......... so last nite was the final..........arrived at zouk bout 7ish and met JJ.......we also met wain's sister who was waiting for wain which was arriving late.........we queued up to go into the club and whilst we were waiting, there were some salesgurl who offered to take pix for free and also there are also freebies to give away.......

then wain arrived with her friends and like 30 mins after, we were allowed to enter the club........the theme for the nite was knockout ring.......... we managed to find a table to settle down and like half an hour later, the show started........ the hosts for the nite was serena c of mix fm and also rashid salleh of sportcenters......... then the guys started to came out......basically we were there to support one of our gang, fai...........

games were played and also there were some entertainments.............. and kudos to fai who won the most sexiest eyes.........ahahahaha.........so i believe, he has the sexiest eyes in all malaysia???...........well, that's what malaysia voted for...... and the winner of the nite was a guy called brian lau..........

later, went for dinner/supper with sweetie and JJ at pelita..........went off at 12ish......sent sweetie to office and teman her to take her stuff at the office........arrived home at 2ish and went to bed straight after..........all and all, the nite was fun...........

The three stooges.....Yin Mei, me and sweetie
THe whole lot
while waiting for it to start, we snaps some pix
The new malay horror movie..........MyKad...........hahahaha
The hosts...........serena c and rashid salleh
Those ain't shopping bags........those are goodie bags........hehehehe
Snap snap
Snap snap again
Batchmates

Ok, when he won this.........the whole lot lost their voices............hahahahaha JJ, sweetie and the bachelor.........all worked in the same group before
Atas tangga also can la
Me and the editor for cleo...........
Squeeze in............
Finally, met the blogger that inspires a lot of people The sepet gang..........

the unofficial red nose day

this morning, when i woke up, i got half of my voice back, thank god..........but then something ain't rite........... i felt very difficult to breath and somehow i was talking through my nose...........oh man..........i'm having the flu........... at first, i tot it was just my normal morning sinus in which it will be gone on the way to work.........but then, after 10 o'clock, my nose still feels very heavy........



the whole morning, i was being a zombie and my mood was so down and i feel slumped........sigh.......... every 2-3 minutes, i'll sneeze.........my colleagues was like r u ok??? so as for today, i'm celebrating my red nose day when everyone else isn't.............. =(

attending a different kind of wedding

last sunday evening, i've attended a christian wedding........it was a very different kind of environment for me as it was the first time for me to attend such occasion.......well basically it was the dinner function..........the wedding was sweetie's colleague, Andrew Anand Bala and also his partner Deborah Bala......... the function was held at Victoria Hall in Holiday Villa Subang...............the hall was enough to cater more or less 500 people.............

the best thing bout it was that the way the function got started was very cheerful as they were sprinkling/throwing flower petals to the bride and groom......... the songs that they were playing was also a lovey dovey type..........the food was an indian food...........it's quite nice actually..........there were some funny yet very knowledgable speech that the bride's dad gave to the crowd in which we laughed to it...........

the best part was that i didn't know what to wear for the occasion..........baju melayu is out of the window, batik is too country.com and also linen shirt was very simple........so i was walking at KLCC where i got the idea to wear a knit vest on top of a shirt......... sweetie wore a blue dress.........

during the function, we met one of her colleague yin mei which we did some catch ups with her.....or rather i should say the "interview" session.......hahahaha........all and all, i enjoyed the wedding....................

monster for a while

this morning, when i woke up..........i felt very unease at my throat........ it was dry and also very sore..........then i tried to talk, and it was very hard for me..........i was coughing a lot in the shower........and i've realised when i reached office that i've lost my voice...........guys at the office called me monster for da day...........they smiled and also gave me the look when they've heard my voice........hehehehe..............where's that reliable strepsils.............so today i decided not to talk that much and use sign language i think to communicate........... :P

the difference between english and also non english

ok, i really LOL when i watched this video............. wanna know y, just look at it and u'll get the answer.......hehehehe

and now, compare it with this one, and tell me which one do u prefer?........hahahaha

staring blankly at lappie's screen

it was 7 in the morning, when i heard "mi, tok uda's nasi lemak opens at what time?"...........it was dad asking me coz he wanted to buy breakie............ then i said it opens at 7ish............ then i went back to bed....... when i was about to have my dream, then i heard it again..........."do u have kak ati's number coz i wanna order"...........with my head so heavy, i searched the number and gave it to dad.........then i went back to bed again..................and again as i was bout to have my dream, my phone rang.............. and on the other end of the line, "a person said to me, fahmi, where do u normally buy the birthday cake?"........it was my uncle who asked me bout the shop...........then i said to him it is near MPAJ.............then he asked me the questions "fahmi, sponsor cake boleh tak?" and with my head so heavy and weng........i said ok and hang up...............

bout an hour later, i woke up...........then i was like, eh.........did i agreed to sponsor anything? but i can't remember what.......... so, decided to go and wash jazzy as it has been 2 weeks since i last wash jazzy.........an hour later came back with jazzy very clean and i have planned to wax jazzy..........it has been quite some time that i havent wax me car............so spent bout 2 hours waxing jazzy..........while i was waxing jazzy, my uncle came.......and he said, so confirm that u r gonna sponsor the cake? and that's when it hit me that what i thought was a dream, was actually true...............hehehehe.........and i said, yeah ok i'll sponsor the cake.........and then he added that he wants 3 stacks of cakes..........and i replied, yeah ok, but 3 cupcakes and i'll stack it up..........deal? he then said, ok la, one big one is fine enough..........hahahahaha..........

in the afternoon, decided to have my haircut at saw klcc.........it has been a month since i last had my haircut........damn time flies and my hair grows real fast.........sigh.........after had my haircut, went back home to have lunch and went out again to buy the buzzday cake...........as usual, it is the vanilla chocolate with choc bits on top.......mmmmmmmmmmmmm........nice..........but decided to do a twist........i've decided since i was the sponsor of the cake, i wanna put the message on the cake as : Selamat Hari Jadi Yg Ke-12 Bulan Nadirah........and also put 12 small candles on top of it......hahahahaha.............. so i told mum, if my buzzday, will it be 12small candles times 25 .......hehehehe

went back home and took a nap..........then later in the evening, went to ampang point to get pressie for baby cuz.........after searching for 30mins, then we've decided to get crocs sandles for the baby......it was a nice brownish color...........went back home took my shower and later went to granny's................eventually there were a lot of guests at granny's.......... after greeting them, we then quickly sing the buzzday song and eat the meals that was being prepared.........

we had a lot actually tonite, i.e. we had chicken rice, sate, fried mee hoon, pulut kuning, caramel pudding, and also desserts...........later after all has been consumed, we are all stuffed and i was bullying the buzzday gurl.......hahahahaha........ till i made her cry.........just love playing with her hair that's all........hehehehe...........

later, came back home bout 12ish and now, i'm staring blankly at my lappie's screen.........sigh

the buzzday cake of which i was the proud sponsor
the cranky buzzday gurl
Everybody wants to help to blow coz the buzzday gurl doesn't know how to blow candles
Me and the buzzday gurl
Biting the ear of the buzzday gurl.........aummmmmmmmmmm Making the gurl high by playing and fiddling her ears.........
Ok, lets start the make over............
The process still on its way
Tadaaaaaaaaaaaaa....... the final product
Ok, her face has changed from happy to crying, let's find her parents shall we Yes, she's one, but she can't walk yet..............